Exciting Sex With Blindfolds
In this article, we’ll give you some beginner tips for being blindfolded. Don’t worry though. It’s so much simpler than you might think.
Being blindfolded is all about trust, confidence, and letting go. In case you lack any of those things, blindfolding is a great sexy exercise to help you out. All you need is a partner you can relax with, and you’re all set.
There’s no need for any extra props or toys unless you want to take things further. So sit back, relax, and let us give you some reasons why you should try this practice out.
It Builds up Trust
It should go without saying that sex with a blindfold builds up trust between you and your partner. That’s the case whenever you’re stripped of one of your senses. So how does it work in this case? It’s pretty simple.
Being blindfolded means you can’t see what’s coming at you (duh!). That immediately puts you in an extremely vulnerable position. Many people would try to take advantage of that in some way, which is never a good thing. So the fact that you’re willing to be practically blind around your person of choice means you trust them.
What elevates that trust even more is the fact that you know that they won’t do anything to harm you. Being vulnerable isn’t always easy. So you can start this by discussing everything that’s going to happen in advance. That’s how you can introduce yourselves to blindfold play and start from there.
It Heightens the Senses
There are plenty of reasons to try blindfold sex, and we’re here with another exciting one. Sensory deprivation means all of your other senses are heightened. Think of it as being in the alert state.
This means you’re suddenly more sensitive to touch, smell, and taste. This is an incredible time for some ice cube temperature play if you want to kick things up a notch. Remember — you trust your partner, and this is exactly why these kinds of plays are safe to do.
Whatever your partner does to you now, you will feel it so much stronger. Think about your erogenous zones and things your partner does that turn you on. Now that you’re more sensitive to touch, your partner caressing your thighs, for example, could send you in a trance.
We know that sounds hard to believe, but try it yourself. It doesn’t need to start in medias res. You can blindfold yourself and let your partner kiss your neck. Once you find out how that feels, you’ll immediately want more.
As is the case with everything new and exciting, taking baby steps is important. A simple touch is more than enough to begin with. You don’t have to instantly jump into doing kinky stuff.
It Brings an Element of Surprise
You know how people always tell you to close your eyes before they surprise you with something? The same principle applies to wearing a blindfold during sex, except your eyes stay shut, and your surprise will probably be the orgasm of your dreams.
If you’re into surprises, tell your partner that they’re free to do whatever they want to do. They have free rein. Of course, some boundaries should exist, but you get what we’re trying to say here.
Not discussing things beforehand will do the trick. Maybe your partner will keep you in suspense for a while before they do anything. Not only will everything be a surprise, but you might even start begging for things to happen.
That’s where the real fun begins. Being at the mercy of your partner is quite sexy if you ask us. There’s nothing quite like it.
It Increases Dependence
You can consider this a sort of dominance play. Subs are always dependent on the dom as you will be on your partner. You just never know what they’ll do next.
If you’re both on the kinky side, they might decide to do more than kissing, touching, or teasing. Switching sex positions is also in play. Maybe even switching the room you’re in. You can rest assured that you’re going to have a blast with this one.
So not only does blindfolded sex increase trust between partners, but it also helps you get a taste of what it feels like to be more dependant on them — not in life or in general, but in all things sex. Your partner might even decide to use sex toys on you, or they can decide not to — depends on which of these options will drive you more crazy.
This is the type of play without limits, so expect your partner to be creative. Besides, you don’t have to be the blindfolded one all the time. See how your partner likes it when the tables turn and they find themselves at your mercy.
If you want to feel closer to your partner or spice up your sex life, we highly recommend you try this out. You don’t need any props for this adventure to succeed. Thankfully, anything can be a blindfold — a scarf, a tie, or anything else.
This is definitely an exciting way to have sex. However, not everyone likes to be put in such a vulnerable position. That’s why blindfolding is a great way to build trust between partners. Blindfolding your partner can mean so much more than sensory deprivation. It means they trust you enough to know you won’t take advantage of them. Finding a partner like that is definitely special.