Cock Cages: Guide to Male Chastity
Michael and Sheila went to an expensive restaurant to treat themselves to dinner. It was their fifth anniversary, after all! They talked about their relationship, how it was great to have each other, and how they enjoy each other’s company. Then they discussed their first couple of months of dating. Michael recalled how she wouldn’t have sex with him for the first three months, even though he bought her flowers and went along to that party he didn’t want to attend. He talked about how she denied him what he wanted, but he was cool with it because he was in love and knew it would happen one day. Once it did, the passion went through the roof, and everything around them was rose-colored.
However, five years of continuous sex kinda killed off that beginning romance, and passion wasn’t as high as it used to be. But Michael had an idea! It wasn’t for naught that he brought up the tease and denial from their relationship’s early stages. Out of the blue, he looked Sheila in the eyes and said, “How about we do the same, but, like, take it up a notch to an absurd level?”
A week later, we have Michael on his knees, wearing a cock cage, while Sheila is standing over him, holding the key to his orgasm. In this short guide to male chastity, we’ll talk about penis cages and why men decide to go for it. Let’s start with the latter.
Why Men Practice Chastity
The idea of chastity (and a chastity belt as a device) goes back to the Middle Ages. Today, many historians and experts dispute the idea of metal chastity belts being as common as most of us believe. Nonetheless, we’ve all seen images of chastity cages that soldiers supposedly put on their wives before going away to fight. Regardless of whether the historians are true or if it was indeed a thing, it didn’t stop us from fantasizing.
Nowadays, the sex toy industry has developed so much so that you have so many different sex toys you can buy that have various functions. Most of them are there to make your sex life more intense. A cock ring, for instance, makes your penis bigger and helps you maintain an erection. The butt plug you put in your ass, obviously, is there to make you feel full. However, on the opposite side of the sex toy spectrum, there are devices whose whole purpose is orgasm denial. A cock cage, as one such item, is there to prevent erections. So, why is Michael into it? Why is “men in chastity” a thing at all?
Chastising Yourself
Chastity play has gone away from its initial purpose of making sure that women remain faithful and/or that sexual predators don’t get their way with another man’s wife. Today, chastity play blocks your physical orgasm and gets you to have a psychological one, if you will. In essence, male chastity devices are there as a means for a submissive male to hand over control to their dominant partner.
With the number of people into power play, there’s clearly something appealing being in these roles for both parties. Some do it to prove loyalty to the partner they adore, and others do it for the simple pleasure they feel when they’re being told what to do. Everyone has their kinky reasons for long-term chastity. To achieve it, many men opt for a helping hand in the form of a cock cage.
How Cock Cage Helps
A cock cage, as we’ve already said, prevents erections from developing. You put it around the shaft and the gland of your penis. Once the device is locked, it physically stops your flaccid penis from getting a full erection. The only way to get a boner is to take the cage off, and you can do that only if your dom allows it.
That is for people who appreciate a good old-fashioned game of tease and denial, just like Michael. Imagine doing arousing stuff for an extended period of time, all the while your penis is locked away, and you can’t get it hard. Once you do get it off, you’ll cherish that orgasm way more than someone who just whips it out and beats it senseless for five minutes!
Some people take it one step further and start wearing these cages even when they’re not with their partner. Wearing a cock cage to work and coming home to your partner to keep teasing you is another way where your cock cage can enhance your sex life. Basically, cock cages become most pleasurable after you stop using them. The longer you wear it, the longer you’ll crave for a release. Once that release comes (or, once you come), your orgasm will be made out of sugar, spice, and everything nice. You’ll feel even chemical X!
Cock Cage Use for BDSM
These two really go hand in hand with each other. With a cock cage, BDSM is the primary playing arena. Apart from the simple fact that you want to get a boner when you can’t, there are additional ways cock cages help you get aroused.
In essence, BDSM is a mind play where people behave in certain role patterns to get themselves going. BDSM is taboo. It’s forbidden fruit. You get to behave in a naughty way. If you’re a submissive, you’ll get someone to order you around, punish and reward you as they see fit. All these combined (given you’re into it), will increase your sex drive and get you aroused even more.
Once you put in the cage and hand over the key, there’s a constant reminder that your partner is fully in control of whether you’ll get to feel pleasure or not. This way, they own your orgasm and your genitalia. Remember the mantra: Hippity hoppity, submissives are property!
Cock cages can be your everyday BDSM device, but it can also be a beginning phase of your BDSM life. That is so because it’s a perfect way to get into training. Your dom physically restricts you, and you’ll feel compelled to listen to their orders. If you’re a good boy, you’ll be rewarded. If not, that cage stays on, Michael!
Buying Your Cock Cage
Now that you know why you’d do it, and you feel like this is a perfect thing for you (or your partner), let’s check out how you go about buying one.
First of all, the size of your cage should fit. It should stay in place so that the man can’t get an erection. But it shouldn’t hurt him or cause damage to his penis. Remember, this is chastity play, not physical torture (there’s other stuff for that). The tip of your penis should just slightly touch the cage. The same goes for the ring of the cage that you fit around your shaft. Don’t skip this part, as neglecting it can give you circulation problems.
After you’ve got the measurements right, the design of it depends on what you like. It can be open-ended, completely closed, or caged. Whatever floats your boat. When it comes to material, make sure it’s body-safe. Go for something like stainless steel, plastic, titanium or silicone chastity cages from lockthecock.ca.
If you want to know when to upgrade your cock cage, you can do so by reading this article.
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